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Is your practice lacking depth?

Is Your Yoga Practice Missing Depth? Here’s How to Find It

Ever feel like your yoga practice isn’t quite hitting the mark? Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how our piecemeal approach to yoga can shortchange the immense potential of this transformative practice.

Most of us approach yoga as something we fit into our busy schedules—a group class here, another there, with whichever teacher happens to be leading. Sporadic and casual, this method often lacks the critical elements of commitment, consistency, and depth.

While group classes are a wonderful way to build community and catch glimpses of yoga’s philosophical richness, they can sometimes be treated as just another workout. The sweat, the flow, the “check it off my to-do list” mentality often overshadow yoga’s deeper purpose.

Yoga isn’t just exercise; it’s a lifestyle and worldview with the potential to transform how we relate to ourselves and the world. When approached holistically, yoga can inspire solutions to our global challenges—our environmental crises, societal divisions, and individualism. But to unlock this potential, yoga must be practiced as a complete system.

At Thrive, we strive to weave philosophy, breathwork, and mindfulness into every class. But even with our best efforts, a 60 - 90 minute class can only scratch the surface. For students who attend sporadically, these glimpses into yoga’s depth often feel disjointed. True understanding requires commitment—a regular practice that builds on itself over time.

Yoga is most transformative when approached with dedication. As Swami Satchidananda beautifully said:

“There’s no value in digging shallow wells in a hundred places. Decide on one place and dig deep. Even if you encounter a rock, use dynamite and keep going down.”

In our “quick-fix” culture, we’re tempted to scatter our energy across countless pursuits, always chasing the next new thing. But yoga asks us to stay the course—to dig deep and find fulfillment in commitment.

4 Ways to Add Depth to Your Practice

  1. Commit to Consistency
    Find a teacher who lives and shares yoga as a lifestyle. Attend their classes regularly and notice how their teachings start to resonate in your daily life. Over time, concepts will connect, and your practice will feel more cohesive and purposeful.

  2. Dive into Self-Study
    Ask your teacher for book recommendations to explore yoga philosophy on your own. While some ideas may feel esoteric at first, engaging with these texts will enrich your understanding and give your practice new layers of meaning.

  3. Explore Beyond the Mat
    Deepen your practice by attending workshops, teacher trainings, or specialized programs—even if you don’t plan to teach. These settings allow for focused study and exploration beyond what a regular class can offer.

  4. Work One-on-One with a Teacher
    Partnering with a teacher for private sessions can provide personalized guidance and help you incorporate yoga’s teachings into your daily life in a systematic way.

The Depth is in the Dedication

Yoga is a lifelong journey, and its rewards come from staying the course. When we commit to digging deep—whether through consistent classes, self-study, or personalized guidance—we move beyond the surface. We begin to experience yoga not just as something we do, but as something we are.

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3 Ways Yoga Can How yoga can help your parenting

As the holiday season approaches, parents often find themselves juggling a whirlwind of activities, from shopping for gifts to planning family gatherings. This time of year can be filled with joy but also stress. Practicing yoga can be a powerful tool to help navigate these challenges. Here are three compelling reasons why yoga can improve your parenting, particularly during this busy season.

1. Promotes Mindfulness and Presence

Yoga encourages mindfulness, helping parents stay present in the moment. When you're knee-deep in holiday preparations, it's easy to get overwhelmed by to-do lists and expectations. Yoga teaches you to focus on your breath and body, fostering a sense of calm that can translate into your parenting. By practicing mindfulness, you can engage more fully with your children, responding to their needs with patience and understanding rather than frustration.

2. Enhances Emotional Resilience

The holiday season can stir up a range of emotions—excitement, joy, and, at times, anxiety or sadness. Yoga helps build emotional resilience by providing tools to manage stress and regulate emotions. Through practices such as breathwork and meditation, parents can learn to identify and process their feelings in healthier ways. This emotional awareness can help you model emotional intelligence for your children, teaching them how to navigate their own feelings during the hustle and bustle of the holidays.

3. Fosters Connection and Bonding

Yoga is not only about the individual experience; it can also be a shared family activity. Engaging in yoga together can strengthen the bond between you and your children. It creates a space for open communication, laughter, and shared experiences. Incorporating fun yoga poses or simple mindfulness exercises into family time can help everyone unwind and connect, making the holiday season more meaningful and joyful.

As you prepare for the holiday season, consider incorporating yoga into your routine. Not only can it help you manage stress and stay present, but it also offers an opportunity to model healthy habits for your children. By embracing the principles of yoga, you can create a calmer, more connected family dynamic that enhances your parenting experience. Happy holidays!

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Embracing Stillness: December's Focus & Pose of the Month – Savasana

As the year winds down and the holiday buzz ramps up, we invite you to pause, breathe, and surrender into the art of stillness. December is the perfect time to reconnect with yourself, and that's why we're spotlighting Savasana (Corpse Pose) as our Pose of the Month. Often underestimated, this resting pose embodies profound simplicity and the essence of yoga itself: union and release.

Why Savasana?

Savasana is more than just lying down at the end of class; it’s a practice of letting go. It teaches us how to integrate movement, breath, and intention into a moment of stillness. Amid the hustle of holiday shopping, gatherings, and year-end reflections, Savasana serves as a reminder to stop and savor the present moment.

While it isn’t part of the 8 limbs of yoga, it embodies all 8 limbs at once by allowing you to integrate the benefits of the physical postures (asana), mindful breathing (pranayama), and sensory withdrawal (pratyahara) while actively cultivating a state of stillness and awareness, which are key elements of the later limbs like dharana (concentration) and dhyana (meditation) by the end of a yoga practice; essentially acting as a bridge between the physical practice and the more subtle energy aspects of yoga.

Physically, this pose encourages full-body relaxation, promoting recovery and calming the nervous system. Mentally, it offers a space to declutter the mind, fostering clarity and inner peace.

How to Practice Savasana

  1. Set the Scene: Lie flat on your back, allowing your arms and legs to rest comfortably. Palms face upward, signaling openness and receptivity.

  2. Alignment Matters: Support your lower back with a bolster or adjust your head with a folded blanket if needed to ensure comfort.

  3. Breathe Naturally: Let your breath flow without force. Each exhale is an invitation to release tension and sink deeper into the mat.

  4. Let Go: Release the urge to control or plan. Imagine melting into the earth beneath you.

Savasana Beyond the Mat

As we embrace Savasana in our December classes, let its lessons extend into your daily life. Can you find a moment of stillness amidst chaos? Can you consciously relax even when your to-do list feels endless? Savasana reminds us that restoration is not indulgence—it’s essential.

Join Us This Month

Throughout December, our teachers will emphasize the beauty of Savasana in every class. Expect guided relaxations, breathwork, and meditative practices tailored to deepen your connection with this transformative pose.

Let’s close out the year together with the grace of surrender and the gift of presence.

Namaste,

Cathy

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Gratitude in Every Breath: Embrace the Spirit of Thanksgiving Beyond the Asana

As we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, many of us are already anticipating the delicious food, the warmth of family gatherings, and the joy of giving thanks. While the holiday season often calls for indulging in food and connecting with loved ones, it’s also a perfect time to reflect on the deeper meaning of gratitude and its role in our yoga practice.

At Thrive, we believe that gratitude is an essential part of the practice—one that goes far beyond the physical postures (asanas). Yoga teaches us to cultivate awareness, mindfulness, and connection, and these qualities can be extended to every aspect of our lives. This Thanksgiving, let's explore how we can bring the spirit of gratitude into our lives, both on and off the mat.

1. Gratitude in the Present Moment

One of the core principles of yoga is mindfulness—the practice of being fully present in each moment. In the midst of our busy lives, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of thoughts, tasks, and distractions. But Thanksgiving provides a perfect opportunity to slow down and truly appreciate the present moment.

Take a few minutes each day to stop, breathe, and reflect on what you're grateful for. Whether it's the smell of a freshly brewed cup of tea, the warmth of a cozy blanket, or the people around you, these small moments of mindfulness can help you center yourself and tap into a deep sense of gratitude.

2. Gratitude for Your Body

While yoga asanas help us build strength and flexibility, it’s important to recognize that the body itself is a powerful gift. This Thanksgiving, take a moment to appreciate your body—not just for what it looks like, but for all the ways it supports you.

Honor your body by treating it with kindness. Practice self-care, rest when needed, and nourish it with wholesome foods. Remember that yoga is about cultivating a loving relationship with yourself, and gratitude is a powerful tool in nurturing that connection.

3. Gratitude in Relationships

Yoga also teaches us to connect with others with compassion, empathy, and kindness. As we gather with loved ones this Thanksgiving, take time to express your appreciation for those who support and care for you. A simple "thank you" or a thoughtful gesture can deepen relationships and remind us of the beauty in human connection.

Beyond the holiday table, consider how you can bring the principles of gratitude into your interactions with others. Whether it's a kind word, a thoughtful note, or simply being present for someone, these small acts of gratitude can have a profound impact on the lives of those around you.

4. Gratitude for the Journey

Yoga is not just a physical practice—it’s a journey of self-discovery, growth, and transformation. As we approach the end of the year, reflect on your own journey: the challenges you've overcome, the lessons you've learned, and the ways you've evolved.

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to honor the progress you’ve made, whether on or off the mat. It’s a reminder that every step, no matter how small, is a part of your path. Express gratitude for where you are, and trust that the journey continues to unfold in beautiful and unexpected ways.

5. A Mindful Thanksgiving Flow

As we move through this season of gratitude, consider incorporating a mindful practice into your holiday routine. Whether you join us for Aly's Heated Thanksgiving Flow on Thanksgiving Day or take time for a quiet, reflective meditation, these moments of self-care will help you stay grounded and connected to the present moment.

If you're looking for ways to bring yoga into your Thanksgiving celebrations, try creating a space for quiet reflection, journaling about your gratitude, or engaging in a short, gentle practice to set a positive tone for the day.

This Thanksgiving, we invite you to focus on gratitude not just as a holiday theme, but as a way of life. May you find peace in the present moment, appreciation for your body, and love in your relationships. As we continue to grow in our practice, both on and off the mat, let’s remember that gratitude is one of the most powerful tools we can use to cultivate joy, contentment, and connection.

Happy Thanksgiving from all of us at Thrive!

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Pose of the Month: Santosha—Embracing Contentment and Gratitude

November is a time for reflection, and as we prepare for the season of gratitude, our yoga studio is focusing on Santosha, the niyama of contentment. While Santosha may not be a physical asana, its presence on and off the mat is a powerful way to live our practice in everyday life.

What is Santosha?

In the ancient teachings of yoga, the Niyamas guide us to live with purpose and peace. Santosha, the second niyama, translates to contentment. It's about finding joy and satisfaction in the present moment, exactly as it is. In a world filled with constant striving for more, Santosha encourages us to stop, breathe, and embrace the beauty in what we already have.

Santosha and Gratitude: A Perfect Pairing

November brings a collective focus on gratitude, which perfectly complements the practice of Santosha. Gratitude is a way of recognizing and appreciating the good in our lives, while Santosha asks us to find contentment, regardless of external circumstances. Together, they create a harmonious mindset that allows us to let go of desire and simply be.

Through yoga, we can practice this by acknowledging where we are in our bodies, not comparing ourselves to others, and appreciating the journey of our practice, rather than focusing on the end result.

Practicing Santosha on the Mat

Santosha isn’t about giving up ambition or goals; it's about recognizing the value of where you are today. Next time you flow through your vinyasa or settle into a restorative pose, invite contentment into each breath. Notice how your body feels without judgment. Santosha reminds us that the "perfect" pose is the one we are in right now.

Here are a few ways to embody Santosha on the mat:

  • Breathe deeply: Use your breath as a tool to anchor yourself in the present moment.

  • Release expectations: Allow your practice to unfold naturally, without striving for a certain outcome.

  • Celebrate small wins: Whether it’s holding a pose for a few breaths longer or finding a moment of stillness, embrace every accomplishment with gratitude.

Taking Santosha Off the Mat

Santosha extends beyond our practice and into our daily lives. During this season of gratitude, take a moment each day to recognize the abundance in your life, no matter how small. Find contentment in the little things—a warm cup of tea, the beauty of a sunset, or a kind word from a friend.

Remember, Santosha is not about complacency but about accepting life as it is. It’s finding peace in the present moment and knowing that, right here and now, you are enough.

Join Us in November

As we move into the heart of fall and the holiday season, let’s focus on cultivating Santosha both on and off the mat. Stay tuned for our yoga classes this month, where we'll weave in the theme of gratitude and contentment into our practice, creating space for self-reflection and growth.

Together, let's practice Santosha and express gratitude for all that we are and all that we have. Namaste!

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Goldilocks and the Three Bears of Yoga: Finding Your Perfect Flow

Ever leave a yoga class feeling like it just wasn’t the right fit? Maybe it felt too slow, too fast, or perhaps it didn’t even "feel" like yoga to you. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone! This experience is a lot like the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears—each class can feel too hot, too cold, or just right. But here's the good news: it doesn't mean the class, the teacher, or even yoga itself isn’t for you. It just means that particular style didn’t resonate with you, and that’s perfectly okay! Yoga is an incredibly diverse practice, and part of the journey is finding what clicks for you.

Let’s break down some of the key styles of yoga to help you navigate your own "just right" path:

Vinyasa Yoga

Often described as a "flow," vinyasa yoga links breath with movement in a dynamic sequence of poses. It’s adaptable for all levels, but you might find yourself moving at a quicker pace compared to other styles. It’s perfect for those who enjoy variety and like to get their heart rate up while maintaining mindfulness.

Ashtanga Yoga

A more structured practice, Ashtanga yoga follows a set sequence of postures that you repeat each time you practice. It's disciplined, challenging, and builds strength and flexibility over time. This is great for those who like routine and enjoy working on the same sequence to track their progress.

Iyengar Yoga

Precision, alignment, and detail are the heart of Iyengar yoga. Props like blocks, straps, and bolsters are often used to help you find the correct form. This practice is perfect for students who love to dive deep into their body’s alignment and enjoy a slower, methodical pace.

Power Yoga

If you’re looking for a more athletic and intense practice, Power Yoga might be your match. Inspired by Ashtanga, but with more flexibility in sequencing, Power Yoga focuses on building strength and endurance. It’s great for those who like a workout-style class that’s still rooted in yoga principles.

Hatha Yoga

Hatha is often considered the foundation of all yoga styles. It’s a more traditional approach that focuses on basic postures and breath control. Slower than a vinyasa or power yoga class, Hatha is perfect for beginners or those looking for a more gentle, mindful practice.

Restorative Yoga

The ultimate "slow down" practice, restorative yoga involves long holds in supportive postures, often using blankets, bolsters, and blocks. This class is all about relaxation and stress relief—perfect if you’re looking for deep rest and rejuvenation.

Yin Yoga

While it might look similar to restorative yoga, yin yoga is all about holding poses for longer periods to stretch the deeper connective tissues in the body. It can be intense, but incredibly rewarding for flexibility and releasing tension, both physically and emotionally.

Kundalini Yoga

A more spiritual and energetic practice, Kundalini combines postures, breathwork, chanting, and meditation to awaken your inner energy. It’s a great option if you’re seeking a transformative experience that goes beyond the physical.

Fusion Classes

In some classes, you might find a blend of these styles, or even additional elements like light weights or Pilates-inspired movements. At our studio, we offer classes that combine yoga with other forms of movement to create a well-rounded, balanced experience. For example, Kirsty’s mat Pilates class brings strength and core work into the practice, while Brianna’s Hot Hatha blends Yin, Vinyasa, and Power for a unique fusion flow. Every teacher has their own background, from different schools of yoga and personal practice, which adds richness to the diversity of classes we offer.

The Yoga Teacher Journey

Just like students, every teacher comes from a unique background. Some are drawn to dynamic practices like vinyasa or power, while others find their home in restorative or yin. Teachers like Camille combine restorative and stretch elements, creating a beautiful mix of flow and relaxation, while Rob emphasizes balance and mindfulness, with a deep commitment to dharma and breathwork.

At our studio, we encourage you to explore different styles and teachers. Yoga is a personal journey, and sometimes finding your perfect practice takes a bit of trial and error. And that’s okay! Whether you love the heat of power yoga, the alignment of Iyengar, or the deep stillness of restorative, there’s something here for you.

So next time you step on the mat and it doesn't feel quite right, remember: you’re not Goldilocks, but you are on a journey to find the class that feels "just right" for you. Keep exploring, keep trying new things, and trust that your perfect yoga practice is out there waiting.

See you on the mat! ✨

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October Pose of the month Utthan Pristhasana: Lizard Pose.

Purpose

Here are some of the reasons why Lizard Pose is good for you:

  • Stretches and opens the hips increasing mobility and flexibility

  • Stretches and strengthens glutes, hamstrings, and the spine, releasing tension in the back 

  • Helps reduce the negative effects of prolonged sitting or inactivity

  • Helps relieve soreness in the inner thighs

  • Can help lengthen your stride, increase power and agility in changing directions, and reduce the risk of injury to your hamstrings

POSE GUIDE

Do’s—In order to do Lizard Pose correctly, here are the steps:

Begin on your hands and knees with your hands close to the short edge of your mat 

  • Align your hands directly beneath your shoulders with your middle fingers facing forward.

  • Align your knees directly beneath your hips and your feet directly behind your knees.

  • Shift your weight into your left leg, and bring your right leg forward placing your right foot just outside your right hand. Your right knee will be bent and stacked directly over your foot.Your hips will stay squared to the front of your mat. You should feel a stretch in front of the left hip, above the thigh.

  • Pivot on your right heel to rotate your toes out about 45 degrees.

  • Lengthen your spine, and engage your core. 

  • Lower your forearms to the floor, placing your elbows directly beneath your shoulders and your hands directly in front of your elbows. Your middle fingers are still facing forward.

  • Press the hands into the ground to activate the arms.

  • Hug your right knee against the right arm and shoulder engaging the inner thigh. You will feel a stretch in the right hamstrings and glutes.

  • Scoop your hips forward and down toward the ground, feeling a stretch in the hip flexor, in front of the left thigh.

  • Continue to lengthen the spine and engage the core as you focus your gaze forward.

  • Repeat on the other side.

Practical Tips

Don’ts—Common mistakes beginners make in lizard:

  • Not engaging the inner thighs: There’s a lot going on in this pose. It can be difficult to keep it all happening at once. Beginners especially can forget to engage the inner thighs during Lizard. However, activating the inner thigh of the back leg can be a real game changer in how you experience this pose. It pulls the alignment together making it easier to maintain the position, and it intensifies the strengthening and stretching benefits through the thighs and groin muscles. If you’re having trouble understanding how to engage your inner thigh, think about trying to rotate the front of your thigh toward the midline of your body, while still keeping the knee facing the ground and the foot reaching directly behind your hip.

  • Letting the bent knee sway out away from the body: It’s common to find the front bent knee swaying out away from the body in this pose. When you amplify the external rotation of the front hip in that way, you are diminishing the stretch available for your glutes and hamstrings. This can also exacerbate sciatic discomfort and low back tension. For proper form, hug your front bent knee into your arm and shoulder maintaining active contact for the duration of the pose.

  • Forgetting to engage the core: Because Lizard is such an involved pose with several active parts, the core can sometimes get a little lazy and start drooping down toward the ground. This can weaken the pose, opening your back, glutes and hips up for potential injury or unnecessary tension. Keep the core engaged during the entirety of the pose to create a strong foundation for the back of the body, making for a safer and more effective Lizard pose.

  • Rounding the back: It’s common to see beginners rounding the back toward the sky and dropping the head and neck toward the ground. This is incorrect and can lead to injury or discomfort, particularly through the upper back and neck. Instead, make sure you are keeping your back as flat as you can. Elongate your spine and engage your core. Keep your gaze forward to keep the back of the neck in line with the rest of the spine. 

  • Front knee past ankle: Keep your front knee aligned over your front ankle to avoid putting your knee in a compromising position and straining the ligaments.

  • Stance too short: Beginners may not plant the front foot far enough forward. If the stance is too short, it can lead to rounding of the back and a compromising position for the front knee as mentioned above.

Props and Modifications

Reason for modification—You should consider a modification if you experience the following:

  • Excessive tightness and limited flexibility in the hip flexors (front of thighs and lower abdomen) and groin

  • Discomfort in the knees

  • Overly tight glutes and limited range of motion in hips

  • Excessive back pain/discomfort or tension

  • Discomfort or restriction in the shoulders

    Excessive back pain/discomfort or tension:

    • Place your hands on the ground beneath your shoulders, keeping your arms straight instead of lowering onto forearms. This allows the back to remain more upright, making it easier to keep the proper alignment in the spine, and decreasing tension in the back.

    • Alternatively you can place your forearms on a couple of blocks.

    Discomfort or restriction in the shoulders:

    • If the shoulders are feeling excessive tension or pinching, try resting your forearms on blocks to alleviate the strain of the spinal fold. This creates more space for the shoulders to open and relax.

    Overly tight and inflexible glutes and hips:

    • Try taking your front foot a little further out away from the body to create more space for the hips and glutes in this pose. Make sure to keep the knee over the foot to protect the knee and ankle.

    Excessive tightness and limited flexibility in the hip flexors and groin: 

    • Try placing your hands on the ground beneath your shoulders, keeping your arms straight instead of lowering onto forearms. This will decrease the intensity of the stretch at the hip flexors and groin.

    Discomfort in the knees:

    • If you’re experiencing discomfort in the front bent knee, make sure you are hugging it close to the body so that it stays in proper alignment.

    • If you’re experiencing discomfort in your back knee you can place a folded blanket or towel between your knee and the ground to provide some additional cushion.

    • You can also elevate your back knee off the ground. To do this, curl your back toes under, lifting your left knee off the ground and stacking your back heel over your toes. Extend through the back heel to elongate and activate the left leg. Lift the back of the left leg toward the sky to keep the leg fully engaged and active.

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Cool down, man! an inspiring yoga flow for the end of summer

When preparing a yoga class, I always consider the current weather and season. When I approach summertime, I favor the elements of ether/space and earth.

Space offers an opportunity to slow down, reflect, and expand. Earth provides the stability that allows for growth in all directions. In yoga, the earth element is accessed through strong standing postures, poses where the hands and feet are rooted to the ground.

The balancing practice here starts strong, then gradually slows down to promote coolness and a relaxed state.

Mountain with Mudras

Come to stand at the top of your mat in Tadasana/Mountain. Bring your palms together in front of your heart for Anjali Mudra. Bring the palms together and draw the thumbs to your heart space.

Allow the hands to become parallel to the earth - opposite of each other, drawing the index, middle, ring and pinky fingers into a “c” clasp for your Ganesha Mudra. Wrap your thumbs around the outer pinky edges of your hands. This mudra opens up the heart, and allows your to move past any obstacles.

Standing Sun Breaths

On an inhale, reach the arms overhead into an Urdhva Hastasana/Upward Salute; interlace your fingertips at the top, pulling the triceps and pinky sides of the hands to the back of your mat. As you exhale, soften the knees, hinge from the hip space and gently press your palms toward the earth to come into Uttanasana/Standing Forward Bend. As you inhale, release the hands, sweeping the arms and body to arrive back into Urdhva Hastasana and repeat this movement three to 10 times, slowing down the exhale as you progress.

Moon Salutation

Inhale the arms overhead into Urdhva Hastasana/Upward Salute. Exhale into Uttanasana/Standing Forward Bend; inhale to Ardha Uttanasana/Half Standing Forward Bend with a long spine. On an exhale, fold forward and step back to Anjaneyasana/Low Lunge, back knee on the ground. Interlace your thumbs and inhale the arms overhead.

Exhale into Ardha Hanumanasana/Half Split, straightening the front leg (soft knee!) and folding over it, hands framing the front leg. If your hamstrings are tight, place your hands on blocks for support. Inhale, and bend the right knee and bring your arms overhead, back to Anjaneyasana/Low Lunge.

Repeat the flow on the other side. Do one to three rounds of Moon Salutation.

Vinyasa Flow

Once you complete the second side of the last round of your Moon Salutation, arrive at the top of your mat.

On an inhale, reach the arms overhead into an Urdhva Hastasana/Upward Salute. As you exhale, soften the knees, hinge from the hip space and gently press your palms toward the earth to come into Uttanasana/Standing Forward Bend. As you inhale, arrive in Ardha Uttanasana/Half Standing Forward Bend.

Release the hands to the mat, pointer fingers in alignment with shoulders, and engage through your Hasta Bandha (pressing through the finger pads, ballmounds and heels of the hands, keeping palms soft). Step your feet back into Phalakasana/Plank or Ardha Phalakasana/Half Plank bringing your shoulders over wrists, heels over toes, long spine and engaged core.

Inhale, begin to shift forward on the toes so your wrists are just slightly over the line of your wrists and activates the muscles of the upper back. As you exhale, lower down until the insides of your biceps frame out your ribcage finding Chaturanga/Four Limbed Staff. Be sure to engage the chest, core and thigh muscles so the posture is safely supported. If you need a modification, you may lower down to Ashtanga Namaskar/8 Point Pose.

On the next inhale, stay with the engaged Hasta Bandha as you press the earth away from you, lengthening the arms, releasing the shoulders away from the ears, projecting your crown of the head to the sky and your heart forward, pressing down through the tops of your feet for your Urdhva Mukha Svanasana/Upward Facing Dog -OR- press down through the thighs and tops of your feet for Bhujangasana/Cobra.

Exhaling, tuck your toes, engage the core, press the top of the mat away from you, drawing the underarms towards the heart and lengthen the backside of the body to the sky for Adho Mukha Svanasana/Downward Facing Dog.

You may repeat this one to three times.

WARRIOR II FLOW

From Adho Mukha Svanasana/Downward Facing Dog, inhale the right leg behind you towards the sky. Exhale draw the knee towards the chest and round the upper back like a cat. Exhale step the right foot through the thumbs and bend the right knee directly over the right ankle and reach the arms out into a T for Virabhadrasana II/Warrior II. Bring the left foot parallel to the back of the mat and hug the left hip and left shoulder towards the top right corner of your mat, and spin your right thigh towards the right side of the room to avoid the inner knee from collapsing inwards. In this variation, kep the palms face up to promote cooling. Hold Virabhadrasana II/Warrior II for three to five breaths.

On an exhale, straighten your right leg into Trikonasana/Triangle. The right hand can reach down for a block, the shin, or the floor. For more heat, float the right and left hand parallel to one another. Hold Triangle for five to 10 breaths.

On an exhale, soften the right knee (small bend) and move the right hand towards the top right corner of your mat. You may use a block if your hand cannot reach the mat. Inhale, lift the left leg into Ardha Chandrasana/Half Moon. The left leg reaches to the back wall as the left side body and hip stacks on top of the right. The left arm can either hold onto the left hip or it can reach toward the sky. Soften your gaze—which can be down toward your rooted big toe or up toward your extended thumb. Expand through the back of your heart and relish the space around your limbs. Hold Balancing Half Moon for three to five breaths.

Slowly release the back left foot towards the back of the mat and bring the body back into the alignment of Virabhadrasana II/Warrior II. Bring the hands down to frame out the right foot as you simultaneously spin the left foot so the toes point forward. Step the right foot back so the body aligns into Phalakasana/Plank. Follow your Vinyasa Flow - Chaturanga/Four Limbed Staff Pose or Ashtanga Namaskar/8 Point Pose, arriving in Adho Mukha Svanasana/Downward Facing Dog.

Repeat the flow on the other side.

Tree Flow

After you complete the second side of your Virabhadrasana II/Warrior II Flow, arrive at the top of your mat in Tadasana/Mountain Pose. Ground down through your right leg, engaging through your quad thigh muscle and hug your left knee towards your chest. place the sole of the left foot on the inside of the thigh, calf or ankle for Vrikshasana/Tree pose. Just make sure that the foot is not pressing into the knee joint. You can reach your arms overhead, bring your Anjali Mudra to your heart, or keep them resting on your hips. Whichever arm variation you choose, make sure that the arms are moving away from the midline in order to air out the sides of the waist and your armpits. Hold Tree pose for five to 10 breaths.

Release your left foot from Tree but keep the leg lifted. Reach for your left big toe and extend your left leg out in front of you for Utthita Hasta Padangusthasana/Extended Hand-to-Big-Toe pose. If you are new to this posture, bend the left knee and wrap your fingers around the front of the shin. Hold for three to five breaths.

Repeat the flow on other side.

Balancing poses create stability. As you move through this sequence, keep your eyes soft, the back of your heart open, and the breath smooth and silky.

Releasing

Now the cooldown begins.

From Tadasana/Mountain Pose, you may enter through a Vinyasa Flow, or slowly transition into Balasana/Child’s Pose. If you are moving through a Vinyasa Flow, you may enter into Balasana/Child’s Pose from Adho Mukha Svanasana/Downward Facing Dog. Stay in Child’s Pose for five to ten breaths.

On an inhale, lift into Table.

Exhale forward into Bhujangasana/Cobra, expanding through the heart center.

Inhale back to Table, and a long exhale takes you back to Child’s pose, gently rounding the spine.

Repeat this flow three to 10 times. Enjoy a brief pause at the end of the exhale each time you come into Balasana/Child’s pose and Bhujangasana/Cobra.

After your last Balasana/Child’s Pose, come to sit on the earth or the edge of a blanket if you hips need some elevation. Press into your sit bones and allow the spine and crown to lengthen upward. Begin to find your way into Baddha Konasana/Bound Angle by bringing the soles of feet together, lengthen out from the inner thighs to the outer knees. Ground down evenly through your seat. Soften your breath as you slowly fold forward on an exhale reaching your heart towards to the top of your mat. Hold Bound Angle for five to 10 breaths.

Savasana

In the summer, allow for a spacious Savasana/Corpse Pose. Lay on your back, lengthen the spine and cervical spine. Create space by extending your arms and legs so that they are wider than your mat. The palms face up. Close the eyes or cover the eyes with a cool towel. Soften into the earth, and release your breath to a whisper. If you cannot find Savasana/Corpse Pose on your back for any reason, please take a Parsva Savasana/Side Lying Pose on your left side while using your left arm as a pillow. Allow 8 - 10 minutes minutes for rest and integration.

Namaste!

- Cathy

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May Pose of the Month

At our studio, we're always seeking to delve deeper into the rich tapestry of yoga asanas. This month we’re exploring the journey to mastering Bakasana, commonly known as Crow Pose.

Bakasana is a foundational arm balance that not only strengthens the upper body but also cultivates balance, focus, and courage. This asana requires both physical and mental discipline, making it a beautiful metaphor for overcoming challenges on and off the mat.

Benefits of Bakasana

  1. Strengthens the Core: Bakasana primarily targets the core muscles, including the abdominals and obliques, helping to build stability and control.

  2. Improves Balance: Balancing the body on the hands while engaging the core and shifting weight forward teaches us to find equilibrium amidst instability.

  3. Enhances Concentration: As we concentrate on maintaining the pose and breathing steadily, Bakasana becomes a powerful tool for sharpening mental focus and presence.

  4. Boosts Confidence: Successfully mastering Crow Pose boosts confidence and self-assurance, encouraging practitioners to explore new possibilities both on and off the mat.

How to Do Crow Pose or Bakasana

First thing's first, this can be pretty scary, so acknowledge this fact and just tell yourself you can do this.

Once you have warmed up your hands and wrists, maybe by stretching them, gentle presser on the hands and wrists-whatever you need to do to get your hands ready for this weight. Then, follow these steps:

(be sure you have a block or bolster nearby)

  1. Start in Yogi Squat or Malasana Squat

  2. Place your hands shoulder's width distance apart on the mat between and in front of your toes. 

  3. Spread your fingers out wide and screw your hands into the mat so your pointer fingers are in alignment with your shoulders.

  4. Lift your hips up and wiggle your feet closer together

Variation 1:

  1. Bend your elbows back as if you’re coming into chatturanga. That will engage your chest, shoulders and upper back.

  2. Place your knees as high up on to the triceps as you can

  3. Shift your weight and gaze slightly forward. Do not shift your gaze with your chin!

  4. Try to bring one heel to your bottom while steadying yourself with the other foot.

  5. Switch feet, trying to bring opposite heel to your bottom.

  6. When you think you're ready, try lifting both heels up towards your bottom.

Variation 2:

  1. Bend your elbows back as if you’re coming into chatturanga. That will engage your chest, shoulders and upper back.

  2. This time, place your knees to the outside of your triceps

  3. Squeeze your knees together

  4. As you squeeze, think about lifting one or both heels.

  5. Shift your weight and gaze slightly forward. Do not shift your gaze with your chin!

  6. Try to bring one heel to your bottom while steadying yourself with the other foot.

  7. Switch feet, trying to bring opposite heel to your bottom.

  8. When you think you're ready, try lifting both heels up towards your bottom.

One thing you can do to help you is to start out with your feet on a block. This way, your feet are already in crow position and it helps your shoulders and hands get used to the idea of all that weight on them.

Anytime we put ourselves in an unstable and awkward position, we’re petrified of face planting. ​​​​To overcome the face planting fear, start with your head on a block or on a bolster.

Everyone is different, so play with these adjustments and let me know what you think.

Remember, this pose takes A LOT practice. Don't give up. Anything worth having is worth working towards, so keep at it. You can practice this pose every day if you'd like, just a couple of moments at a time. If your wrists start to hurt, then take some time off and revisit on another day. Yoga is like golf, you'll never master it, so be happy to practice and tell the pose, "until tomorrow."

Bakasana invites us to embrace the beauty of balance, both physically and mentally. As we cultivate strength, focus, and courage on the mat, we nourish these same qualities in our daily lives, empowering us to face challenges with grace and resilience.

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April Pose of the Month

Welcome, fellow yogis, to another exciting journey on our mats! Today, we're diving into the serene realm of Vikasitakamalasana, also known as the Blossoming Lotus Pose. Just like a lotus gracefully unfurls its petals, this pose invites us to unlock our inner beauty and radiate positivity. So, roll out your mat, take a deep breath, and let's blossom together!

Picture yourself in a serene garden, surrounded by lush greenery and vibrant flowers. The air is filled with the sweet scent of blossoms, and the gentle rustle of leaves creates a soothing symphony. As you step onto your mat, feel the earth beneath you supporting every movement, grounding you in the present moment.

How to do Vikasitakamalasana / Blossoming Lotus Pose?

1. Begin in Bhujapidasana / Shoulder Pressing Pose.

2. Exhale and sit down. Lean backwards and balance your weight on your sitting bones. Rest your calves on your forearms to support your legs.

3. Press your heels together and open your palms to face the sky.

4. Inhale and straighten your spine.

5. Tighten your abdominal and pelvic muscles.

6. Touch the tip of your index fingers with the tip of your thumbs.

7. Close your eyes and stay in this pose for as long as you can.

As you slowly release from Vikasitakamalasana, take a moment to express gratitude for this opportunity to nurture your body and soul. Just like the lotus flower, may you continue to bloom and grow, spreading love and light wherever you go. Until next time, remember to keep exploring, keep evolving, and keep blooming brightly on your yoga journey.

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march pose of the month

Embrace Strength and Renewal with March's Post of the Month: Urdhva Mukha Svanasana

As March blooms with the promise of renewal and vitality, there's no better time to embrace the rejuvenating power of yoga. This month, we shine the spotlight on Urdhva (Upward) Mukha (Facing) Svanasana (Dog), a dynamic posture that embodies strength, openness, and energy. Let's dive into the depths of this empowering asana and explore how it can elevate your practice and invigorate your spirit.

Understanding Urdhva Mukha Svanasana: Urdhva Mukha Svanasana is a fundamental yoga pose often incorporated into vinyasa and hatha yoga sequences. Its Sanskrit name translates to "Upward-Facing Dog Pose," reflecting the posture's resemblance to the graceful arch of a stretching dog. In this pose, the practitioner lifts the torso and pelvis off the ground while balancing on the hands and the tops of the feet, creating a deep arch through the spine.

Benefits of Urdhva Mukha Svanasana:

  1. Strengthens the Back: Urdhva Mukha Svanasana engages the muscles along the spine, including the erector spinae, to build strength and stability in the back.

  2. Improves Posture: Regular practice of this pose can help correct rounded shoulders and alleviate stiffness in the upper back, promoting better posture.

  3. Stretches the Front Body: The pose opens the chest, shoulders, and abdomen, counteracting the effects of prolonged sitting and hunching over electronic devices.

  4. Stimulates Energy Flow: Urdhva Mukha Svanasana activates the solar plexus and heart chakras, fostering a sense of vitality and empowerment.

  5. Enhances Respiratory Function: The expansive nature of the pose encourages deep breathing, increasing lung capacity and oxygenation of the body.

Tips for Practicing Urdhva Mukha Svanasana:

  1. Alignment is Key: Focus on aligning your wrists beneath your shoulders and spreading your fingers wide for a stable foundation.

  2. Engage the Hands: Create a Hasta Bandha by pressing through the finger pads, ball mounds of hands and heels of the thumbs to mitigate the tension that can build up in the wrists and forearms.

  3. Engage the Core: Draw the navel toward the spine to support the lower back and prevent overarching.

  4. Lift Through the Chest: Imagine lengthening the sternum forward and upward while broadening across the collarbones for a deeper opening.

  5. Press into the Tops of the Feet: Maintain active engagement in the legs by pressing firmly into the tops of the feet and lifting the kneecaps.

  6. Modify as Needed: If you experience discomfort or strain, consider placing a folded blanket or bolster under the thighs or lowering the knees to the mat for a gentler variation.

Urdhva Mukha Svanasana invites us to rise with strength, grace, and resilience, embodying the spirit of renewal that defines the month of March. As you incorporate this empowering pose into your yoga practice, may you cultivate a sense of vitality, openness, and inner radiance that uplifts you both on and off the mat. Embrace the transformative power of Urdhva Mukha Svanasana and awaken to the infinite possibilities of your practice and your life.

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Desk Yoga Delight

Hello desk warriors! If January felt like the longest month ever and you find yourself “officially” back to work, it's time to break free from the sedentary shackles and infuse some yoga magic into your workday. Sitting in front of the computer for long hours can take a toll on your body and mind. But fear not! We've got a rejuvenating desk yoga sequence to help you stretch, relax, and boost your energy levels. So, roll out your imaginary yoga mat (or just clear some desk space), and let's dive into a yoga escape at your desk!

Pose 1: Seated Cat-Cow Stretch

Start by sitting tall in your chair. Inhale, arch your back, and lift your chest (Cow Pose). Exhale, round your spine, and tuck your chin to your chest (Cat Pose). Repeat for a minute to release tension in your spine.

Pose 2: Neck Stretches

Gently tilt your head to one side, bringing your ear toward your shoulder, and hold for a few breaths. Repeat on the other side. Roll your neck in slow circles, both clockwise and counterclockwise, to release neck stiffness from staring at the screen.

Pose 3: Seated Forward Fold

Scoot to the edge of your chair, inhale, lengthen your spine, and exhale as you fold forward from your hips. Let your chest rest on your thighs, and reach for the floor. Hold for 30 seconds to stretch your back and hamstrings.

Pose 4: Seated Spinal Twist

Sit with your feet flat on the floor. Inhale, lengthen your spine, and exhale as you twist to one side, placing your opposite hand on your knee and the other hand behind you. Hold for 30 seconds on each side to relieve tension in your spine.

Pose 5: Desk Downward Dog

Stand and place your hands on the edge of your desk, walking backward until your body forms an inverted V shape. Stretch your arms, elongate your spine, and press your heels towards the floor. Hold for one minute to stretch your entire body.

Pose 6: Wrist Stretch

Extend your arms in front of you, palms facing down. Gently press your fingertips towards the floor with your opposite hand. Hold for 15 seconds on each hand to alleviate wrist strain from typing.

Pose 7: Seated Eagle Arms

Sit comfortably, raise your arms, and cross one over the other, bringing your palms together. Lift your elbows and relax your shoulders. Hold for 30 seconds, then switch arms. This pose relieves tension in the upper back and shoulders.

Pose 8: Seated Figure Four Stretch

Sit tall, cross one ankle over the opposite knee, and gently press down on the crossed knee. Hold for 30 seconds, then switch legs. This stretch opens up your hips and releases tension in the lower back.

Pose 9: Ankle Rolls

Sit with your feet flat on the floor, lift one foot, and rotate your ankle clockwise for 10 seconds, then counterclockwise for 10 seconds. Switch to the other foot. This helps improve circulation and flexibility in your ankles.

Pose 10: Seated Meditation

Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and focus on the present moment. Inhale positivity, exhale stress. Take a minute to center yourself before returning to your tasks.

And there you have it – a quick and effective desk yoga sequence to refresh your mind and body during the long work hours. Remember, taking short breaks for these rejuvenating poses can significantly contribute to your overall well-being. So, embrace the yogic escape and let your January blues melt away. After all, a little desk yoga is the perfect antidote to the longest month ever!

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February Pose of the month

As Valentine's Day approaches, what better way to celebrate the season of love than by opening your heart both metaphorically and physically? In the world of yoga, there's a beautiful and empowering pose that not only strengthens the body but also opens the heart – Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana, commonly known as Bridge Pose. This asana not only stretches and tones various muscles but also serves as a gateway to emotional well-being and heart opening. Let's delve into the intricacies of Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana and explore the myriad benefits it brings, particularly in terms of unlocking the heart chakra.

Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana is a backbend that engages various muscle groups, including the legs, glutes, and the entire back. The pose resembles a bridge, with the body forming a gentle arch. The name "Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana" is derived from Sanskrit, where "setu" means bridge, "bhanda" means lock, and "sarvanga" means whole body. As the name suggests, this pose involves creating a bridge-like shape with the body while engaging and locking certain muscles.

  • Start by lying on your back with your knees bent over your ankles and feet hip-width apart.

  • Place your arms alongside your body, with your palms facing down to create an anchor.

  • Press through your feet (particularly the hells) and lift your hips towards the ceiling, lengthening your chin towards your chest to elongate the cervical spine.

  • As the hips lift, create space between the the fronts of the shoulders and ribcage space by pressing the backs of the shoulders into the mat, and interlacing your fingers under your back and roll your shoulders beneath you, creating a strong foundation.

  • Keep your thighs parallel to each other and breathe deeply into the chest.

  • Hold the pose for 30 seconds to a minute, focusing on the lift of the chest and the opening of the heart.

Why practice Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana?

Heart Chakra Activation:

Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana is known for its ability to stimulate and open the heart chakra, Anahata. This energy center is associated with love, compassion, and emotional balance. As the chest lifts in this pose, practitioners often experience a sense of expansion and release, fostering a deeper connection with their emotions and the world around them.

Improved Circulation: The gentle inversion created by Bridge Pose encourages blood flow to the heart, enhancing circulation and oxygenation. This can have positive effects on cardiovascular health, helping to reduce the risk of heart-related issues.

Relief from Stress and Anxiety: Backbends, including Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana, are known for their stress-relieving properties. By opening the chest and stretching the front of the body, tension in the shoulders and neck is released. This can contribute to a sense of calm and relaxation, reducing symptoms of anxiety and stress.

Enhanced Lung Capacity: The expansion of the chest in this pose allows for deeper and more conscious breathing. Improved lung capacity not only oxygenates the body but also supports respiratory health, benefiting the entire cardiovascular system.

Posture Improvement: Regular practice of Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana strengthens the muscles in the back, shoulders, and neck. This, in turn, contributes to better posture, aligning the spine and promoting overall spinal health.

Setu Bhanda Sarvangasana is more than just a physical exercise; it is a doorway to emotional and spiritual well-being. As you embrace this pose, feel the gentle opening of your heart and the liberation of your emotions. Whether you're a seasoned yogi or a beginner, integrating Bridge Pose into your practice can be a transformative journey towards a more open and compassionate heart. Allow your practice to be a bridge connecting you to the profound depths of your inner self, fostering love, acceptance, and a sense of interconnectedness with the world.

Namaste,

Cathy

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January pose of the month

It’s a new year and with it brings new intentions, resolutions, goals, desires. Perhaps your New Year goals or intentions include trying something new, like yoga. Take a minute to think about the last time you tried something new. Maybe you can recall the first time you practiced yoga or the last time you tried a challenging yoga pose. How did it feel? Did it feel like it took a lot of effort in the beginning? Chances are it didn’t come easy at first and took some extra effort. You probably felt your muscles shaking, your jaw clenching, your breath becoming shallow and uneasy, your gaze and/or other parts of your body hardening. I am personally a creature of habit, but in order to grow both in life and our practice, we need to step outside of our comfort zone.

In Sanskrit the word abhyasa means effort or practice. It refers to a practice that is done regularly and constantly over a long period of time. Most significantly, it refers to a practice that aims at achieving a tranquil state of mind. This for many is found in the practice of yoga. You show up for your practice, get on your mat, and begin each practice with a mindset that no matter how long you’ve been practicing there is always something new to be learned and effort to be made. So right from the start, with this mindset you’re letting go a little… letting go of the ego or expectations.

In sutra 1.12 of his Yoga Sutra, Patanjali says…

“Abhyasa-vairagyabhyam tan-nirodhah”

This translated means that in order to stop the whirlings of our mind, the fluctuations, we have to adopt a 2-step method. This 2-step method is abhyasa and vairagya.

Vairagya is translated as non-attachment or letting go. Whether it’s for yoga or anything in life that we do, we show up and put in our best effort (abhyasa) while also letting go (vairagya). So what do we let go of exactly you may be wondering? Vairagya means being content with what is, letting go of attachment to a result, end goal, or the fruits of ones’ labor. So while the two- abhyasa and vairagya- may sound contradictory, it is possible to practice both. We put diligent, consistent effort into something without expecting anything in return.

When we can “sit” with anything that causes whirlings in our mind (good and bad), when we don’t run from those whirlings or resort to blaming (and if we do we recognize it), when we practice detachment from it all… little by little it becomes easier to “sit” with… little by little the “chatter” that is no longer serving us will fall away and we will be able to see and identify with our true self and what’s truly meant for us.

Our January pose of the month is Warrior II pose, Virabhadrasana. In Sanskrit, Vira means hero and badhra stands for friends. So together Vira+bhadra essentially means distinguished hero. Asana means pose. Virabhadrasana is named after the fierce warrior, Virabhadra.

The story or myth behind Virabhadra is dark and one of rage, revenge, and compassion. The warrior series of poses- warrior I, warrior II, warrior III, humble and peaceful warrior- all give us the opportunity to experience the sensations and feelings of being a strong and fierce, yet also compassionate and peaceful warrior. This may sound just as impossible and contradictory as the concepts of abhyasa and vairagya in practice together.

Next time you’re practicing Warrior II try to put the 2-step method of abhyasa and vairagya to practice. Do this first by letting go of any thoughts and trying as best as you can to connect to the present moment. When thoughts come to mind, as they will at some point or maybe even several times in your practice, try not to “sit” with them for too long. Just acknowledge them and let them go as quickly as possible. Now this is a practice in and of itself, so be patient and just keep trying to let go of the chatter to find peace and ease mentally.

Additionally, try to find physical peace and ease while still remaining alert and strong. Try to connect to a balance… what is just enough effort and physical strength needed to hold the pose, and where can you relax and soften more. When you’re present in the deep lunge and open arms of the pose, there is a challenging intensity that probably doesn’t naturally make you feel relaxed. It takes effort and practice to get there. As you gaze over your front arm, is your gaze soft? Is your jaw clenched? Are your shoulders shrugged up tightly by your ears? Can you surrender the will to force a particular outcome in the pose?

Think about how much more strength it takes a warrior to be calm and at peace during times of madness. It may feel like it takes a lot more work to embody the essence of Virabhadra- to be a strong, fierce, compassionate, and peaceful warrior. That is why it’s called yoga practice. It’s a practice and the beauty is that there is no end goal or “destination” to reach in your yoga practice, so let go of the need to get there quickly and just practice.

To practice Virabhadrasana II follow the steps below (we’ll start with the right foot forward):

• Stand facing the long edge of the mat

• Raise arms to shoulder height and step feet as wide as hands.

• Step your left foot towards the back of your mat and pivot on the ball mound until the pinky side of your left foot is parallel to the back short end of your mat.

• Check your right toes and make sure that they’re pointing forward towards the front short end of your mat and check to see if your right heel and left arch match up.

• Bend the right knee to stack the knee over the ankle.

• Make sure you are grounding through the toe pads, ball mounds and heels of both feet.

• Squeeze both quads (think pulling the muscles and bones together) to engage the outer thigh to keep the center of the knee tracking toward the second toe on each foot.

• Engage the glutes and feel the left seat pull towards the top right corner of the mat.

• Turn the gaze to look over the right finger tips.

• Create space between the shoulders and the ears.

• Repeat on the left side.

Benefits:

• Strengthens and stretches your legs, ankles and feet

• Stretches your hips, groins and shoulders

• Opens your chest and lungs

• Builds stamina and concentration

• Energizes tired limbs

• Stimulates your abdominal organs

• Helps relieve backaches

• Develops balance and stability

• Improves circulation and respiration

• Therapeutic for flat fleet, sciatica, osteoporosis, and carpal tunnel.

Here’s to stepping into the New Year with pure thoughts, strong intentions, and humble actions.

Namaste,

Cathy

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Let go

As we approach the Holiday Season, there is always a mixed flurry of emotions. But oftentimes we hear and talk about how stressful the Holidays can be. When we are stressed, it is written all over our face through our expressions - furrowed brow, locked jaw, piercing eyes. The facial muscles hold so much of our accumulated stress and tension, but how often do we actually acknowledge it? On a subtle energy level, stress and tension can also affect our emotions, and contribute to premature aging. When we furrow the brow, we create deep folds in the forehead. When we clench our teeth, our jaw tends to elongate and our lips create a frown. Postural habits can come from our lifestyles which are ever more sedentary, commute bound and device-dependent. Emotional tension also plays a role in facial tension. Psychological pressure can express itself over time to become habits as we hold onto the tension day after day. If we hold onto the tension long enough, the compensatory holding pattern can lead to chronic pain and tension. Accumulated tension also leads to constricted blood vessels, limiting the flow of blood circulating freely to the face... and we all know healthy, clear, radiant skin NEEDS free flowing oxygen and nutrient-rich blood supply. It's crucial!

1. KEEP YOUR NECK LONG AND RELAXED

Gently close the eyes and bring your awareness to the back side of the body, paying particular attention to the back of the head, cervical spine and shoulders. Imagine lengthening all sides of the neck, relaxing the muscles that wrap around the neck, especially where the muscles merge with the base of the skull at the top and the shoulders. Extend the entire spine by anchoring the tailbone down, lightening your ribcage and reaching the crown of the head up, finding more length. Allow the shoulders to release any burdens of tension. Imagine the tough knots in the trapezius (the large triangular shaped muscle that fans out from the base of the skull, supports the neck, and broadens out along the shoulder blades) are unraveling and tension is melting away.

2. RELAX TO ALLOW FOR AN “OPEN THROAT”

Try taking a deep breath and swallowing a few times to settle any tension at the throat. If this is still difficult, try a few deep breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. As you exhale through the mouth, stick the tongue out completely toward your chin while making a "HAAAAAAAAAAA" sound. Don’t worry if you feel silly. There are so many benefits to simha-pranayama a/k/a lion’s breath -

Stretching the muscles in your face

Relieving tension and tightness while improving circulation

Easing the mind

Opening the throat chakra and helping to boost confidence

Freeing negative emotions and allowing you to feel more grounded and centered

3. LET THE CHIN COME TO NEUTRAL

Let the chin sit level and relaxed parallel to the floor, lifted off and away from the chest. Keep the clavicle soft and let the space between the chest and the chin be open. If the chin is sticking out, gently tuck the chin back so the crown of the head is in line with the cervical spine. Feel the strength of the muscles where the chin and the neck meet. As the chin moves in, the muscles strengthen to support the weight of the head.

4. RELAX THE JAW

Unclench your jaw. The jaw is one of the first places where tension accumulates. Clenching or holding tension in the jaw can lead to grinding of the teeth, headaches/migraines, and TMJ, among other things. Find the temporalis, or temporal muscles which connect from the jaw and create a fan of muscles up and across the temples and connect just behind the ear. Then, find the masseter muscle, which connects the bottom of the cheekbone to the bottom of the jaw bone, and tends to hold an incredible amount of accumulated stress. These muscles are among the strongest in the body, and clenching can be a reaction of stress. You can do this by biting down and noticing the movements of these two muscles of the face.

Now, allow the teeth and lips to separate giving space for the jaw to hang in a relaxed state. Detach the tongue from the roof of the mouth and move the jaw around, side-to-side, opening and closing the mouth. Allow the sides of the jaw to release any tension; allow the ears to relax down. Imagine the line of tension melting down and away from the sides of the face. The sides of the face and the line from the ears- to-chin commonly holds a lot of tension in the neck muscles, constricting blood flow to the head and leading to tension headaches. Feel the connection of the jaw with the facial features of the chin, cheeks, lips and nose. Imagine feeling bright and expansive.

5. EXPRESS A PEACEFUL FACIAL EXPRESSION.

When we take on an expression of tranquility, our nervous system registers with the parasympathetic nervous system and shifts our body to feel at ease. Release any tendency to hold negative expressions in the face, meditate on happy, positive, soothing thoughts if you feel agitated. Smooth the space of the forehead by maintaining an easy, peaceful expression of the face rather than allowing the brow to furrow with tension. muscles contract or furry the brows in response to emotional stress. Brow and Temporal tension indicate stress. Allow the space between the eyes to open up. Breathe deeply in and out through the nose, bringing as much fresh oxygen into the nasal cavity and down the throat, into the chest and completely filling the lungs. As you exhale, close the eyes and let go of any feelings of fear and frustration. Imagine tension and stress melting away and off of the face.

You can use an essential oil to enhance the relaxing effect of this practice. Rub a small amount along with a carrier oil on the pulse points on the wrist, sides of the neck, hollow of the throat and temples. Take a deep breath in and smile, release your breath and find ease.

Namaste,

Cathy

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Gratitude

It’s hard to believe that we’re already in the month of November and preparing for the ending of another year, and beginning of a new. As I sat in my meditation and reflection this morning, I was thinking of how amazing the last year has been and was I overwhelmed with a sense of gratitude. For our students who have been part of our community for years, and for the students that are finding us. Thrive truly has an amazing group…...and in this time of the year where we start to focus on gratitude and thankfulness, I wanted to say Thank You.

In our yoga practice we learn to let go of things that no longer serve us and send our energy to the things that bring us joy and focus on the present moment. Sometimes we are overtaken by our rushing thoughts when we’re caught in a moment of stress or excitement, and we forget to take the time to make sure we're nurturing our own needs. We forget to take a moment and be grateful for how time is a gift and how amazing our bodies are. These beautiful, amazing pieces of matter that allow us to have this experience here on earth. What a gift we've been given to have this moment, right now. What if we stopped for a moment, or even several moments of the day and close our eyes and go inside for a moment to tend to all the parts of you – the part of you that is tired, the part of you that is joyous, the part of you that is self-critical. The part of you that is present. Without you having to do anything. A small prayer of gratitude for everything you have. For your family. For having enough.

Rather than focus this month on what you have to do to get through the end of the year, find moments where you can just stop, and be grateful for what you already have. Blessed beyond measure. If we stop looking at what we “should” have (a nice house, a big car, more money, what social media influencers say we need) and just acknowledge what we already have...maybe we start to see we truly do have enough.

Let your mantra this month reflect the simplest of prayers...Dhanya Vad: I feel gratitude. And watch abundance begin to appear...because you have welcomed it into your life.

~Namaste~

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june pose of the month

Urdhva Dhanurasana (Wheel Pose or Upward-Facing Bow Pose) can be considered the queen of backbends in yoga. It is an intense, energy-boosting pose that stretches your chest and lungs. It also strengthens your arms, wrists, legs, abdomen, and spine.

  • Begin on your back with your knees bent and your feet planted hip-distance apart and parallel, directly under your knees.

  • Place your hands alongside your ears with your palms down and your fingers pointing toward your shoulders.

  • Without letting your feet or your knees splay apart, take an inhalation, then use an exhalation to lift yourself partway and place the crown of your head on the mat. Do not rest any of your weight on your head.

  • Pin your elbows into your midline, draw your elbows toward one another, pull your upper arms into their sockets, and start to arch your middle and upper back.

  • Maintaining all these actions, with the next inhalation, press down with your hands and feet, and lift into the pose.

  • Straighten your arms as much as possible but keep at least a slight bend in your knees. Make sure your feet have not turned out, and root down with your big toe mounds.

  • Hold for 5–10 breaths (walk your feet out if they had moved in), then lower directly to the floor (without stopping on the crown).

Modifications: Try the pose on the wall. Take two blocks and place them against the wall. Put each hand on a block and then push up as described above. If that's hard on your wrists, try leaning the blocks against the wall at 45-degree angles.

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pose of the month: Natarajasana/dancer pose

Dancer's Pose is a favorite of many a yoga practitioner in a class or at home. The pose is named after Nataraja, who represents the dancing side of Lord Shiva. Dancing is a form of movement and creation, so we can think of this pose as a way to spring forth and create something special out of ourselves. Now, looking at the pose itself there are several things going on. First of all, it is a balancing posture. Second of all, it is also a backbend. Many people miss this point. And the third important aspect is hand placement- how to hold the back leg in the air. Let's take a look at these three important points.

The Mythology of Natarajasana

Natarajasana, or King Dancer Pose, is the embodiment of King Nataraja, a depiction of Shiva, the god of destruction. Shiva represents change. With birth must come death; with destruction must come rebuilding. Nataraja represents Shiva as the ever-present change in the universe.

The dance of Nataraja is known as the Ananda Tandava, which means the 'dance of bliss'. In this dance form, Lord Shiva is shown in a circular frame which depicts the cosmic fire that is responsible for both creation and transformation of everything.

There is a cobra around the neck of Nataraja, and it’s venom is a representation of the veil of illusion that prevents us from recognizing our true divine nature. Nataraja has four arms, with each arm representing different things (i) in one, he holds fire, the destructive energy with which Nataraja dances at the end of each cosmic age, cleansing sins and removing illusion; (ii) the other hand is covered with a snake in Abhaya Mudra which is a gesture of fearlessness; (iii) the third hand holds an hourglass drum and is enfolded in a damaru hasta mudra which represents the rhythm of music and universe; and (iv) the fourth-hand points towards his lifted dancing feet.

He stands on one leg atop a symbolism representing ignorance. Shiva stands above them, maintaining mastery over ignorance. By standing over the demon of ignorance, Shiva is able to have a higher gaze, or a higher level of consciousness, which allows him to rise above daily drama. Standing firm in Natarajasana helps us to see life more clearly.

Shiva’s dance is born out of a liberation from the fear of change. Dancer Pose is quite challenging. It requires a release from fear. The deep backbend and strong balance of the pose draw upon our ability to release fear and stand firm in our ability to take life as it comes. Some days we remain steady in the pose; other days, we wobble or fall. Such is life. Noticing the ebb and flow instead of fearing its consequences can truly set us free. This is the real goal behind Natarajasana.

The Balance

First things first, align your feet properly. Make sure your toes are pointing towards the top of your mat and are parallel to one another. Ground down into your standing foot and press into the standing foot’s big toe. Often, when the big toe goes, everything else goes, too! Why is this so important? Because pressing the big toe down activates the inner thigh. When the inner thigh is activated, the muscles of the central body help you balance more efficiently. Make sure to not lock out the standing knee and engage your quad. Always start with the foundation. Take the heel of the opposite foot toward your seat, reaching the arm on the same side up and back to take hold of the lifted foot.

 The Backbend

Dancers may move around a lot, but in this pose, we are actually more in a position to be poised like a bow and arrow. Inhale and lift the arm on the same side as your standing leg towards the sky along with lengthening the spine from the tailbone through the crown of the head. Exhale and extend your back foot and leg back gently pressing lifted foot into your hand, while simultaneously pulling the chest forward and bending back. In order to keep this as a backbend and not falling forward, try to fix your gaze at eye level or even slightly lifted toward the brows. Don’t look down because the body may just follow.

The Grip

As many variations of this pose there are, there are just as many ways to hold the back foot. However, there is one thing you MUST know about the grip: The shoulder must be externally rotated when you grab the inside of the ankle. Most beginners learn by holding onto the outside of the foot or ankle. In this variation, it is easier to balance, but the shoulder is internally rotated which limits the chest opening and ability to lift the leg higher. So, when you switch to holding the INSIDE of the ankle so go deeper into the pose, the shoulder joint must be externally rotated. You can also use a strap around the foot as an alternative if the hand cannot reach the foot or outside the ankle.

 

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Sit Down

"Mommy sit down," she said while sitting on my zafu and holding my mala beads. She then took a deep breath in and a deep breath out, mimicking what I do each time I sit in my own meditation.

I have to be honest... when this happened I felt like I was absolutely CRUSHING the parenting game.

My daughter, Allana, just turned 7 a few months ago; and in those 7 years, I've been navigating motherhood, work, opening the studio and a global pandemic, all while hoping to instill as many good habits in her possible (and trying to not lose my mind).

It's been such a beautiful learning experience because it's required me to take all of these practices I've spent the last 20+ years learning - yoga, meditation, positive psychology and then figuring out a way to break them down and explain it in a way that a child can understand them.

So, when I go to practice this is what I say...

I’m going to meditate. That's when I take a few minutes to be quiet and just breathe in and out. This makes me feel calm and happy so I can have a great day.

It sounds so simple when you read it like this, but it's also true, right?

We spend so much time learning the ins and outs of this yogic path. We learn the history and philosophy and study ancient texts. We spend hours coming in and out of asanas and break down the alignment of each so we can get the best benefit of each asana. We memorize Sanskrit and focus on the how-to of pranayama. We try and wrap our brains around subtle body work and how to align our chakras and koshas.

One of my favorite parts about yoga is that there is always more to learn. But, in trying to learn it all it's also easy to lose track of why we started studying in the first place. So we can feel calm and be happy.

Even though I'm a huge proponent that there is ALWAYS something new to learn, I also want to remind you to create space to find the simple joys, little mat celebrations and those “oh shit” or “a-ha” moments in this beautiful practice.

Yoga, both practice and teaching isn't meant to be perfected, that's why it's called practice.

We show up with all of our human imperfections and we move and breathe and even if we stumble, we can still walk away having achieved the most important part which is finding peace and joy.

So let this be your reminder to lighten up today. To take a moment to breathe in and breathe out and to let it be just because it makes you feel good.

This is your reminder to smile. To love. To laugh.

When you do it for yourself, you inspire others to do the same. Even the littlest ones.

Peace, Love & Yoga

- Cathy

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POSE OF THE MONTH: Ustrasana/Camel Pose

So, you’ve delved into a bit of yoga. You’ve got classes under your belt, your chakras are aligned, and you feel ready to bump up your practice a notch - enter Ustrasana/Camel Pose.

A wonderful heart opener.

Camel pose focuses on your chest, abs, and quads while also being excellent for your posture and back pain.

The beauty of this pose is that you can modify to step the difficulty up or down.

Entering Full Camel Pose

You don’t want to take any chances where your spine is concerned. Follow these steps and you’ll be nailing perfect form with your Camel Pose in no time:

  • Begin on your knees, with your legs hip-width apart.

  • Put your hands on your hips.

  • Rest your thumbs against the base of your spine.

  • Align your hips so they’re directly above your knees.

  • Engage your quads by lifting the muscle up toward the hip point.

  • Inhale. As you breathe in, raise your torso and pull your elbows together, you’ll feel your rib cage expanding.

  • Move your hands so the heel of your palm rests on the heels of your feet.

  • As your torso begins to raise and expand, allow your head to slow extend and move back until you’re looking at the ceiling, and engage your shoulder muscles to cushion your neck. BE MINDFUL TO NOT DRAW THE HEAD AND GAZE ALL THE WAY BACK.

  • Hold for a full breath.

While you’re working your way up to full Camel Pose, you can make the pose easier by placing blocks between your legs and behind your back. (A little more on this to follow in the “modifications” section.)

In any backbend posture, the exit is crucial for safety.

To exit the Camel Pose:

  • Lead with your chin until it’s tucked back into your chest.

  • Draw your hands back to your hips.

  • Engage your abs.

  • Steadily return your back to the starting position.

  • Make sure you’ve got total control over your movements at all times — avoid jerking motions and definitely any overextension of your neck or back.

So, what are the benefits of the Camel Pose?

Camel Pose stretches your chest, abdomen, and quadriceps. Folks often neglect these key areas thanks to the sedentary lifestyle that many lead in the 2020s. That can often lead to back pain and slouched posture, alongside a host of less immediately noticeable health concerns.

 A research review indicated that too much time sitting down plays a role in reducing the metabolism and restricting blood flow through the body. Exercise helps address these deeper concerns. Flexing and extending your spine with Camel Pose is going to:

  • help blood circulate through the discs in your back

  • increase your spine’s natural stability and mobility

  • improve posture and ease pain

Variations of the Camel Pose: Modifications and next steps

Like any yoga position, the Camel Pose is all about motion, breathing, and flexibility. That makes it adaptable if you’re not quite at a yogi level or want to try an advanced version.

Here are some ideas for modifying Camel Pose so the pose can meet you where you are in your practice.

  • Resting your hands on blocks. Camel Pose is bendy as all heck. While working up to the full pose, using blocks can take the hump out of the process. If you choose the block route, place them behind your back between your legs. That way, you can more easily plant your hands on a supportive surface if your heels are a little out of reach. You can position the blocks at any height that is comfortable and allows you to feel the benefits of the stretch.

  •  Half-Camel - Try this slightly easier variation, and see if you can level up to full Camel Pose later on:

    o   Begin on your knees, with your legs hip-width apart and your hands on your hips, resting your thumbs on the base of your spine.

    o   Raise up until your hips align above your knees.

    o   Inhale as you pull your elbows together and engage your core.

    o   Move one hand back to rest on its corresponding foot (right hand to right foot or left hand to left foot).

    o   As you inhale again, extend your other hand toward the back wall and let your head follow

    o   Allow your head to fall all the way back, hold for 3 to 6 breaths.

    o   Return both hands to the base of your spine, letting your head and torso follow them forward.

    o   Hold for a moment.

    o   Repeat with the other hand.

Preparatory poses:

  • Bhujangasana (Cobra Pose)

  • Salabhasana (Locust Pose)

  • Anjaneyasana (Low Lunge)

  • Setu Bandha Sarvangasana (Bridge Pose)

  • Urdhva Mukha Shvanasana (Upward-Facing Dog Pose)

Counter poses:

  • Paschimottanasana (Seated Forward Bend)

  • Ananda Balasana (Happy Baby Pose)

  • Balasana (Child’s Pose)

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